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Swimming is the thing that holds most people back when it comes to doing a tri. This is crazy when you think about it. Do you remember when you couldn't walk? Do you remember when you couldn't run? Of course not! How about when you couldn't drive? Ahh, now there's the trick isn't it. Most of us remember when it was illegal for us to drive, but truth be told, there's nothing magical about the age 16. It's not like you did not possess the physics capability of driving before 16. I learned to drive a tractor when I was 10. My mother learned when she was like 8 or something. The trick to figuring out how to do something, is believing you can figure it out. Swimming is no different. People who believe they can't swim, won't be able to swim. People who can't swim won't be able to swim until they think they can, then it'll take them about 5 minutes to figure it out.
Braddock Bay Swimmers, Rock-stars all... except the pasty one in the middle... that's me. haha |
Swimming in a competition is a little different, but it follows the same pattern. It follows the same pattern because EVERYTHING IN LIFE follows the same pattern. First comes belief, then comes learning, most likely followed by failure, which in turn yields to success. The truth about failure, is that failure is weak and pathetic. It doesn't last very long on it's own, you have to keep it alive in your mind or it naturally dies out of your life. The truth about success is that it is preceded by failure. You really can't succeed at something until you've failed at it a little. First time you parallel parked, how did it go? First time you tried to run, did it go well? How about the first time you went on Facebook? First time you kicked a soccer ball? Shot a basket? First time you liked someone? First date? First kiss? SERIOUSLY these are some of our funniest stories because they are SUPPOSED to be complete train-wrecks There is nothing wrong with messing up! There is health and growth in making a fool of yourself.
You want to expand your horizons? You want to experience something you've never done before? You want to see life from a different angle, grow as a person? Go make a fool out of yourself trying something new! And then send me an email and tell me about it!! Don't you dare not tell me!! And if your reading this and you think it'll be a good idea to go skydiving (Jon) or bungee jumping or bull riding for the first time, go do it!!! I want to hear the story and so will hundreds of other people who are begging for permission to go do a hundred other stupid things! I was talking about swimming right?
Thank you, Aaron, for this blog...I've done four sprint tris and have a real fear of deep water. I had a swim coach for those four summers, but now she has moved to Florida and I feel LOST without her, since she understood my fear and worked with it. I've been debating whether or not to try these swims, and after having read this, I'm leaning more towards yes...and, btw, the last CRAZY thing I've done is go to a TRACTOR PULL, out in Marion, a few weekends ago-I'm glad I went, b/c it was a slice of life I had never seen the likes of before, and I LOVED IT! I even got a picture on a big ORANGE tractor, since that's my favorite color, ja ja! :P Maybe I'll see you guys soon...
ReplyDeleteEpic High Five to you Jen! tractor pulls are where it's at!! I havn't been to one of those in far far too long!! There is nothing better than a giant ORANGE tractor pulling way more weight than it ever should! your are a rockstar all day long in my book!! And I can't wait to see you out with the swimmers! Let me know when your going to be there and I will swim the whole way with ya! Fear destroying is one of my specialties! Just ask JON! haha!
DeleteWhy didn't you mention your crazy wife here? The girl who likes to swim in a pool with the ocean in the background ;) haha... remember the crazy little fish that kept trying to eat your foot in Cozumel? I bet one of his relatives is still guarding that ladder waiting to eat your foot again in November... =) Nice pics and post... love ya!
DeleteGreat blog, Aaron! And, Jen, what are you waiting for? Come join us!
ReplyDeleteHah, Fact! I'm still convinced that I can't swim though...
ReplyDeleteWhat's up there Mrs. super-slice-o'-Maine!
DeleteSwimming is WAY EASIER than running!! Seriously!! You can totally do it, and your in way WAY better shape than I was when I started. You've got no excuse! :P
The key there is you have to want to do it...I don't want to go skydiving! But who knows what the future holds...i've been known to give into peer pressure before :-)
ReplyDeleteoh, YOUR GOING SKYDIVING!!!
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